I have recently been reading Elizabeth Berg’s book on writing called Escaping into the Open. It’s fairly obvious that I not only like reading but fancy writing a bit as well. I’ve known for a while that there aren’t necessarily strict, firm rules to writing in order to be successful. However, I don’t believe it truly sunk in until reading this. People say what works for them, but that doesn’t mean it’s applicable to everyone.
Thus, a big part of writing is simply figuring out what the heck works for you. This is comforting and yet terrifying. It’s nice to know that my bumbling around is not only normal but encouraged; however, I really would like to stop bumbling. But it sounds like that’s just the way of things.
Berg gives the impression that being relaxed about writing will make everything easier. I think this is true. I’m just not quite sure how to Zen out my brain about this. Writing tends to make me get this… tightness. I want to put a masterpiece on the page. This includes my blog posts. I realize I have to get past this, and Berg makes it seem like one day I will. I just can’t force it.
She reiterates many things I already knew, but it’s nice and necessary to hear them again. Such as:
- Write, write, write, just keep writing, no matter what. I have seen transformations in my own writing as time goes on. Even though there are many times I feel like I’m spinning my wheels.
- Read everything. This I try to do on a regular basis. (This blog helps.) Ideas strike in all kinds of weird places. So just keep that nose in any reading material you can find. As a personal addendum to this I’ve discovered listening to a wide variety of podcast can also get the ideas flowing.
- There is freedom in writing and don’t let other writers’ hang ups or beliefs limit what you do or how you do it. There are a lot of myths about writing some could be true for some people but they don’t necessarily affect or apply to everyone.
- Work hard, but be kind to yourself. Natural talent always helps, but drive and passion can make almost any writer succeed. Furthermore, I know that I’m not a super-star writer, I like to think I have the drive to become one. And that this hard work does not include mean or self-deprecating thoughts/comments. A firm gentleness will suffice. Positivity will go a lot further than negativity.
Berg provides quite a bit of solid advice for a green writer like myself. She’s realistic but encouraging and right now that’s what my sensitive writing ego needs.
There is a lot of writing advice out there for bloggers and well for all forms of writing. What is some advice you’ve received? Any advice that was particularly unique?